I used the approval rating, the plot gifts console command and had her in love with me, and her invite me in her tent in less then 10 minutes.
If you first raise her approval, talk to her, get her to tel you about the mirror, then give her the mirror, then make your choices wisely its a done deal and you can do it @ the first camp if you play your cards right.
I didn't even need the mirror.
i give her gifts, thats gotten her fondness up to 85 so far. but i've given her every gift i've found, and none of the other party members
That's actually detrimental. The game has a formula for deciding how much a gift is worth to the companion:
- Base approval bonus: +5
- If companion likes the gift: +5
- For every gift given before: -1
- If the companion’s approval is negative at the moment of
gifting: half the value of the bonus
- Minimum approval bonus: +1
So if you give the companion a bunch of gifts that they don't really like then the MAIN gifts won't be worth as much.