I think I found a breakthrough with the game rules. Just copy these 2 addresses to your cheat table, then go to options in the game and change the rules how you want them, when your done freeze the 2 addresses and it will carry over to any game mode.
nba2k13.exe+1BF6708 = ( shot clock, out of bounds, backcourt, 8 sec half-court, 3 sec in key, def 3 sec in key, and 5 sec back to basket)
nba2k13.exe+1BF670A = ( goaltending, travel, double dribble, illegal pick, intentional foul, and kick ball)
to find these codes for future reference turn all rules to "On", then do a Byte search for 255 then change a rule in the game to "off". the number will decrease the more rules you change off, it will increase maxing at 255 every rule you turn on until all rules are back on. Thanks to Frefort on NLSC forums for helping me find these.